Day 1 · Thu 14 Oct · 10:00 AM
Ganesh Puja & Haldi
Venue to be confirmed
A short puja to Lord Ganesh to bless the wedding, followed by the haldi ceremony where turmeric paste is applied to the couple for good luck and glowing skin.
விநாயகர் துணை
Vinayagar Thunai
Together with our families
14–16 October 2027
Destination to be announced
எங்கள் கதை
2019
We were introduced by mutual friends at a Diwali party, and spent the whole evening arguing about the best filter coffee in town.
2021
After two years of long-distance calls and terrible video connections, we finally moved to the same city.
2025
Mithusan asked at the same coffee shop where the filter coffee argument began. Mathuscha said yes before he finished the sentence.
2027
And now, surrounded by family, friends, marigolds and (hopefully) good filter coffee, we're getting married.
விழாக்கள்
Three days, six functions, one very long dance floor. Here’s everything, in order.
Day 1 · Thu 14 Oct · 10:00 AM
Venue to be confirmed
A short puja to Lord Ganesh to bless the wedding, followed by the haldi ceremony where turmeric paste is applied to the couple for good luck and glowing skin.
Day 1 · Thu 14 Oct · 5:00 PM
Venue to be confirmed
Henna artists will be on hand for guests too — come get your hands decorated while we snack, dance and avoid smudging anything.
Day 1 · Thu 14 Oct · 8:00 PM
Venue to be confirmed
An evening of music, dance performances (some rehearsed, some very much not) from both families, and an open floor once the formal sets are done.
Day 2 · Fri 15 Oct · 4:30 PM
Venue to be confirmed
The groom's wedding procession, complete with a band, a dhol and dancing, arrives at the venue and is formally welcomed by the bride's family.
Day 2 · Fri 15 Oct · 6:00 PM
Venue to be confirmed
The main ceremony — sacred vows exchanged around the holy fire (agni) with the saat phere, the seven steps and promises that make the marriage.
Day 3 · Sat 16 Oct · 7:30 PM
Venue to be confirmed
Dinner, a first dance, and (we're told) a surprise or two. Come celebrate with us properly before everyone heads home.
பயணம்
We know some of you are travelling a long way — here’s everything we can share so far, with more to come once the venue is confirmed.
Venue
To be announced
We're finalising the venue and will update this as soon as it's booked.
Nearest airport
To be announced
We'll share the nearest airport and best routes in as soon as the venue is confirmed.
Visa
Check requirements
If you're travelling from overseas, check whether you'll need a visa or e-visa for the destination — we'll post specifics here once the venue is set.
Where to stay
Details coming soon
We're finalising the venue now and will share hotel recommendations and any discounted room blocks here shortly.
Getting around
Details coming soon
Details on getting between the airport, hotels, and venue will be posted here closer to the date.
Weather
Details coming soon
We'll add expected weather for the destination once it's confirmed.
நினைவுகள்
The photo album goes up here after the big day — for now, a small preview of the palette.
கேள்விகள்
Indian formal / festive wear is very welcome (and encouraged!) at every function — but absolutely not required if you don't have any. Each event page above lists a suggested colour palette. The one hard rule: please avoid white or black at the Vivaah ceremony, as those colours are traditionally associated with mourning.
In short: a series of joyful, music-filled functions over a few days, building up to the Vivaah — the main ceremony where the couple takes seven steps (saat phere) around a sacred fire, each one a promise to the other. It's less formal and much louder than a typical Western wedding — think of it as several parties with a beautiful ceremony in the middle. We'll have programs at each event explaining what's happening.
Absolutely. If you'd prefer an adults-only evening at the Reception, just let us know on the RSVP form and we'll point you to some excellent babysitting options once the venue is confirmed.
All wedding meals will be vegetarian, with Jain and vegan options clearly marked. Please flag any other dietary needs on the RSVP form.
Your presence (and the journey it takes to get here) is genuinely present enough. If you'd still like to give something, a small note in the card is more than welcome.
பதிலளிக்கவும்
Please respond by 31 July 2027 so we can finalise numbers with the venue.